Saturday, January 31, 2015

Decisions



Last week we explored the first inkling of a love for art. Have you figured out what yours was? If you have, would love to hear about it.
One decision in my life has always brought me to a point where I wonder if I should have taken the other turn at the fork in the road.
During high school, the art room was one of my favorite places to hang out. Our teacher had an open mind about art and no one had to fit into a box. She accepted whatever form of art spoke to you and helped you on the path to exploring it. I think of her often and a smile comes to my heart.
I loved "playing" with oil paints and could get lost in my painting often being surprised when the bell rang which was a signal to move to the next class. Oh how I wanted to just stay there and paint the day away. I remember one painting I completed and when it was done, my art teacher said it was "meltidelicious." Now, I am sure that Webster never heard of that word (mores the pity) but to me that was the greatest complement. With pride, I gave that painting to my parents, only to find out later that they had sold it. Mores the pity again!!
Which leads me to the decision I did make that often leaves me wondering if it
was the right one. After starting college, I realized that this type of education was not for me; but not really being prepared for the work world I then found myself in, I knew I needed some sort of further education. Throughout high school I never took any "practical" classes, just classes to further myself for college, and back in the 60's the "jobs" for women consisted largely of either factory work or secretarial work. So, enrolling in Prospect Hall (which was a secretarial school for young ladies) when Layton School of Art was right across the street, seemed like the best solution. Prospect Hall was a refined school that taught proper workplace dress, attitude and manners, along with typing, Gregg shorthand, filing, etc. When I think of that, I can't help but think that a lot of youth could benefit from those classes in this present time.
Looking back, I can't help but wonder how my life would have been different had I enrolled in Layton School of Art instead of the one I did choose. Do you have one of those moments? Do you wonder about decisions made?
On the other hand, looking back, If I had made that decision, I probably wouldn't have what I have now. My greatest treasure in life is being called Mom by three wonderful children and there is nothing I would change about that, so perhaps, rather than wonder if I made the right decision, I should be thankful that indeed I did make the right one.
Do you have some questions about decisions you have made?


Stay tuned


Lyndson
contributing Artist
Seranya Studios Art Boutique

7 comments:

  1. I can truly understand your questioning, though I have to say tears began to mist my eyes, wondering if you had made another choice. Where would I be? Who would be my mom? Then I saw your last paragraph and I smiled.
    I'm so happy you do your art now, Mom AND you have your kids to cheer you on. :)
    I also happen to be one who believes that you don't necessarily need to go to school to be an artist. So perhaps it did all turn out as it should for you.
    And I, for one, am so so happy you are my mom!

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  2. PS: Though I get the going to school part in some ways for art, I also believe if it is in your heart - you will find a way to do it. And you did and you are! :)

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    1. I too am thankful to be your Mom--you have taught me so much----- I guess sometimes we all look back and wonder-- I call this "the ramblings of the mind" all the while knowing we are right where we were meant to be.

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  3. On “Looking Back”.
    The one thing we absolutely know for sure is those treasures we now have or have had. It has been and is the life that God has determined should be ours. I can look back on a lot of major decisions in my life and only speculate. I too had actually been accepted at The Art Institute of Chicago but at the last minute, perhaps pressured by family and social piers, changed my career path to Architecture and Engineering. Perhaps the pressure for this decision was motivated by the perception the latter career to be one to provide a more secure financial future. Would my personality and skill sets be different had I gone to the Art Institute? Most likely. Would my cast of friends have been different? That’s for sure. Would my vocation have been different? Definitely. Would my home be different? No doubt about this one. Would my family be different? Without question. But I made choices and it is those choices that have provided the framework of my entire life up to the moment I write this. And I am enjoying some of the happiest times of my life. Who is to say had I made all those other choices differently, that I would be enjoying such happiness? Only God knows that, and that is why He led me to make the choices I did. Sometimes when we do the “look back”, the “what ifs”, it is easy to forget just how fortunate we are in our current state of life. I do it. I think we all do it, to some degree or another. What if I hadn’t painted that last painting? What if I decided not to go to church today? Or on the other end of the scale, what if I had come back from Vietnam maimed or worse (I guess the latter is a no brainer)? But those things didn’t happen. My skill sets, my upbringing, and my faith helped me to make the choices I have, and I am very happy because of them! How lucky we are!

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    1. You are so right Richard--sometimes the what if's can creep in and make us wonder why and how, but in the end, I too believe that we are exactly where God meant us to be (under His direction ) and that is what makes us happy right where we are.

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  4. I wonder.... How interesting it would be to find out just how many famous artists, past and present, never went to school for their craft?

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  5. That is a provoking question---and when did they begin having schools that specialized in art---I am almost sure the Great Masters didn't go to school, they studied under other masters, but how did the first one get his/her knowledge. Opening up a can of worms here.

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